Monthly Archives: April 2012

Just Like You, But Totally Different


To have a sister is to have someone who is just like you, but totally different.

She can call you up and call you out, and either way it is done with love.

She knows your secrets and the funny things your parents do.  You share inside jokes that are older than the concept of “inside jokes” are to you.  She knows you before a degree, before a resume, before you knew how to put on makeup.

You’ll share clothes, a bathroom, and maybe even your house.

She could recognize your walk.  You can recognize her brow.

You’ll look up to her, and she’ll look up to you and you’ll always look out for each other.

When the time is right, she’ll cheer for you, cry for you, fight for you and always celebrate you.

Today I celebrate my little sister on her 24th birthday.  Happy birthday, Jules!

Finding Your Shadow


As an adult I have zero memory of the first time I “found” my shadow.  I do have memories of making shadow animals with my poppy, or shadow modeling (you know your shadow is like a giant ready for the runway)…

But a few weeks ago I stumbled on this video and well, prepare to laugh and melt.  This little boy finds and then masters his own little shadow.

So cool!

Spring 2012 Must Have Prints – Runway to Real Way


In addition to id’ing the must have pieces for spring 2012, I’ve also picked up on some have prints.  The idea is to be inspired  by the designer’s dossier that danced down the runway – and  not to mimic it exactly.  You can pick up a tribal element here and a floral piece there to achieve spring trend balance, not abundance.

Make the Cut Runway: Not technically a “print” this trend appeared on a variety of runways and each application the specific fabric details catch your eye like a print would.  This trend can be playful, sophisticated and full on bombshell interpretation.

Make the Cut Real Way:Shop: Strapless, Strappy, Lip, Gown, Sandal, Clutch

 

Garden Party Runway:For certain there were runway looks with soft petals, and sweet posies, but these styles feature flowers that could not be confused with shrinking violets.  The color is bold, cheerful elevates the sweet flower beyond the Easter Egg roll.

Garden Party Real Way:Shop: Blouse, Cami, Dress, Short, Skirt, Bangle, Pump
 
 

Tribe Leader Runway: The look for the safari chic, and tribal inspired runways was not fashionable tourist on safari, it was Queen of the Jungle, and Leader of the Pack. 

Tribe Leader Real Way:Shop: Sweater, Dress, Wrap, Short, Sandal, Necklace, Pump
 
 

Which print trends are you most excited to translate from the runway to real way?  Tell me in the comments!

Unforgettable Monday


This morning on the way to work we were navigating Monday traffic and the Monday to-do lists when we heard, seemingly out of nowhere, the beginning notes of Nat King Cole’s Unforgettable.

It seemed like a movie moment where all of a sudden contrasting music fills the air, bringing a lightness to your step and a smile to your face.  It turns out that a nearby car was playing this tune, loud enough to cut through the beeps and banalities of a Monday.

In any case, I hope you find a few moments to make your Monday unforgettable, too.

Ballet Class this Weekend


Ha – did you think I was putting on a leotard and tights, tying a bun in my hair and going to the barre?  No.  I am going to J. Crew to buy ballet flats, probably with my hair in a top knot and maybe I’ll go to a bar.

After a very thorough spring cleaning it is time to stock up on some new spring essentials.  These are my favorite new flats from J. Crew and some, certainly not all, will make it home with me.

I was not always a flats fan, but a girl can not survive in heels forever.  Somewhere along the way I stumbled onto a J.Crew sale and bought a pair.  My feet and I agree, the ballet flats from J. Crew are en pointe!

Do you wear flats?  Who are your favorites?  Also which color is the winner here?

all images via J.Crew

Are You Watching New Girl?


The new show New Girl is my new favorite laugh out loud show on TV.  It hasn’t become part of my dedicated DVR list, but it is an absolute go-to when I need some laughs.

Yes, I laughed out loud a few times with this episode…

Zooey Deschanel is sweetly the New Girl, full of quirks, off-beat dresses, zany ideas and a refreshingly unjaded outlook.  She lives in a loft with three longtime friends, Nick (Jake M. Johnson), Schmidt (Max Greenfield), and Winston (Lamorne Morris).  They’re a motley mix of friends and none of them really have it all together, but together they’re a great mix of 30-something singles figuring out life in and outside of their loft.

They’re also really, really, really funny!

Setting A Spring Table


Whether your hosting an Easter or Passover celebration the start of spring certainly indicates the start of more family get togethers, late afternoon barbecues, midday brunches and time around a table.

My family’s Passover table is usually overwhelmed by food and people – normally 25+ people and quite a few briskets.  But, even with trays of food there is always room for flowers to brighten the table.

Here are some inspiring and fairly simple ideas to spring your table to life:

A Personal Seder from Martha Stewart

Veggies in Vases from Hip Hostess

An Egg-cellent Daffodil Centerpiece from Williams Sonoma

Garden Party Ready from Ritzy Bee

What I love about a spring centerpiece is the vibrancy of it.  These ideas all reflects the bounty of the season and are easy to do, inexpensively.

What will your table look like this season?

Tradition, Tradition… or Not?


We’re just days away from two major holidays, Passover and Easter.  I grew up celebrating Passover and Mark’s family celebrates Easter and together we practice our family’s traditions and have created some new ones that are now all our own.

For us, the root of our traditions centers on our love of food.  Food brings people together, it sparks conversation, and it inspires people to learn more, share more, and love more.

This year for Passover, we’ll be doing a quiet Seder at home and we’ll be hosting a spring brunch on Sunday that will feature elements of both traditions.

As I do my menu planning, I continue to debate (with myself) what to make.  The trouble with tradition, or perhaps the reason for tradition, is that so many of the “traditional” foods are no longer part of our regular diet – dishes like low and slow cooked brisket, oversized matzo ball soup, kugels, honey cakes, are once, twice, maybe three times a year specialties.   But, that is what makes them special – heavy too – but always special.

Does a departure from the traditional Ashkenazi (Eastern European) menu in favor of a Latin/Asian/Sephardic (North African) inspired meal mean I am losing my traditions?  What would Tevye say?  Or is it a fun and inspired way to add new culinary skills to a millienia old meal?

These oil laden dishes are really most worth savoring because of the stories of the parents, grandparents and great grandparents that made the same dishes in their own kitchens once upon a time.

In the end I think I will continue to slowly and very subtly make adjustments to our menu, but one thing is for sure, we’ll eat lots and lots of matzo.

If you’re invited to a Seder or just want to have a sweet Passover friendly treat try this recipe out:

For Matzo Toffee – or Matzo Crack, depends on who you ask!
4 to 5 pieces of matzo*
1 cup firmly packed dark brown sugar
1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter
1 cup chopped bittersweet chocolate, or semi-sweet chocolate chips
Toppings, as desired
  • Preheat the oven to 375 degrees Fahrenheit, and line a baking sheet with aluminum foil and/or parchment paper.
  • Place the matzo in one layer on the baking sheet, breaking it when necessary to fill the pan completely. Set aside.
  • In a large sauce pan, melt the butter and brown sugar over medium heat, stirring constantly. Once the mixture reaches a boil, continue to cook for an additional three minutes, still stirring, until thickened and just starting to pull away from the sides of the pan. Remove from heat and pour over the matzo, spreading an even layer with a heat-proof spatula.  Be super careful, this is a great way to burn a finger or a hand.
  • Put the pan in the oven, then immediately turn the heat down to 350 degrees. Bake for 15 minutes, watching to make sure it doesn’t burn. If it looks like it is starting to burn, turn heat down to 325.
  • After 15 minutes, remove from the oven and immediately sprinkle the chocolate over the pan. Let sit for five minutes, then spread the now-melted chocolate evenly with a spatula.
  • You can leave it just as is, enjoying the simplicity. Or add your favorite toppings while the chocolate is still melted.   I like to add dried unsweetened fruit or blanched almonds or pistachios, steer clear of the peanuts, they are not kosher for Passover.

Cleaning House


This past weekend we did round 1 of spring cleaning.  We amassed 7 garbage bags worth of “I didn’t even know I still had this” kind of stuff.  It was a lot of work, and hard, and the music had to be turned up extra loud, but we did it.

What is your cleaning life like?  Do you, you and your mate, or mates share house cleaning duties?  Do you have additional outside help?  A chore chart?

We’re sort of ad hoc when it comes to cleaning at our house.  I’d like to say we do a thorough cleaning every Sunday, but that’s just not true.  Sometimes it is more appealing to not go hands and knees with a spray bottle of bleach.  That said, sometimes the urge to clean strikes at the oddest time, like 8:30 on Saturday morning.  Mark is still nursing a cup of coffee and I am reorganizing cabinets.  That might be my version of crazy.

That said, luckily we’re both clean and we’re usually fairly neat.  We’re not big collectors of stuff and so we like to keep the piles to a minimum and the trash moving out the door. In fact, Wednesday is Mark’s favorite day of the week, it has it’s own song, “Trash day, trash day, best of the week…”

I think in an ideal scenario I’d be a homemade cleaning products type of gal, with a daily routine to help not only maintain but also extend the life and cleanliness of my house.  But that’s the ideal.

How often and how diligently do you clean your humble abode?